A harsh facet of reality
There are no good people. The worst thing you can think about the person sitting next to you is him/her being a genuine ‘good’ person. So what makes friends… what makes lovers? Well, it’s when people come to terms with each other’s… imperfections, accept them and start appreciating the good things. However, the problem is… showing up those imperfections. You know the biggest wrong one can do to another? Is making the other believe he or she is good… in other words, he or she is something… he or she is not. Here comes that bit of honesty, which is required in all relationships of any kind. It’s the honesty of being wrong… of being imperfect… it’s that kind of honesty that brings us closer… and makes us friends.
I’m an hypocrite in a way… here I am telling you all to be honest when… I myself haven’t been completely honest. The blog represents me but not all of me. As you don’t judge a book by its cover, likewise you don’t judge a blogger by his/her blog. We bloggers are guilty of hidding as much as anyone. Some post nice… some post grey. In truth, the grey can be “creioned”… while the nice can be faked… We are sufferers of two major conditions:
1. overexaggeration syndrome, if I’m ok, I’m flying, if I’m not, I’m dying
2. the need to impress, to amuze, to entretain, to shock
Both these conditions are enough reasons NOT to take the blog for granted. Believe me, i’d very much like all what you see here… to make a full resemblence of ME, but while it is representative, it doesn’t cover up the whole “persona”. So take in mind, but don’t decide… never decide…
Gata cu filozofia, ba, sper ca v-a… domolit putin, indestul de putin ca restul ce urmeaza sa para ca un soc. Acum, nu era intentia mea sa fac asta, insa daca tot suntem la capitolul being honest, e randul meu sa fiu onest. Deci, here it goes.
Orice om e liber sa posteze aici, nu numai ca e liber, dar e “apreciat” postand aici. Moderatia la post-uri in mare e inexistenta (exceptand spam si reclame). Totusi, ce nu pot aprecia e atunci cand anumite posturi fac pe alti cititori sa se simta stanjeniti. Ba, puteti gandi orice, insa inainte de a pune-o in public, ganditi-va si la repercusiuni. O sa fiu sincer, e o mare prostie ca de fiecare data cand un el comunica cu o ea in public, eyes are raised. S-a ajuns la faza ca cei doi comunicanti sa opreasca conversatia din acest motiv. Now how bad is that? Sa imi fie frica sa comunic de frica ca lu x-ulica sau lu y-ulica o sa le vina idei. It’s very bad to even consider such a scenario… before making a decision. Deci ba, be warned, daca vedeti comment-uri sterse… poate asta-i un hint pentru motivul in spatele delete-ului.
Daca ma intrebati ce cred despre aceasta… problematica. Ba, ce cred eu, e ca oricine obsedat de aceasta idee… is full’a shit. Not in general, but in particular, when thinking about such nonsense. Si din pacate, persoane apropiate mie sufera de acest sindrom. Pana la punctul de… “mutilare comportamentala”, doar pentru a respecta principiul… de… autoexcludere intre sexe sau cum sa spun. Cel mai rau e atunci cand oamenii ajung sa te suspecte… ei te intreb, tu spui nu, dar ei continua sa te suspecte. Poate inainte de a suspecta atata, poate acei oameni ar trebui sa se gandeasca ca… ba, comportamentul lor SE VEDE, ca NU POT ascunde asa suspiciuni. Daca vrei lucru stanjenitor, sa fii suspectat… asta-i stanjenitor.
Bun, acum, am spus ca o boala a blogger-ului e exagerarea… si chiar asta am facut. Doar ca tineam mult sa ridic acest punct de vedere. Si acum ca am intepat… am ramas fara venin… deci hopefully, that’s a sign of good things to come. Ah… chiar. Ba, n-am uitat de Valentines. Desigur ca va urez happy valentino. Eu desigur sunt committed to mother nature and no one will break that relationship anytime soon. Love you deary :*
Cat despre ceilalti, ba, I hope we don’t share the same… partner, daca ma intelegeti. Be loved! Bye!
P.S. Overexaggeration is not a valid word, because exaggeration is already overdoing something. And you could never “underdo” exaggeration, meaning that only the overdo of exaggeration would exist, which isn’t allowed in modern day English. Still, I remind you this is not Oxford University, so keep such stuff away!
